What are the names of the 7 living generations and their parenting style?

Reviewed: December 2023

Discover how each generation has uniquely shaped the world of parenting, from the disciplined approaches of the Greatest Generation to the tech-savvy strategies of Millennials.

Generation names and parenting style

Have you ever wondered what terms like 'Baby Boomer,' 'Gen X,' 'Millennial,' and 'Gen Z' really mean?

These labels represent generations—groups of people born in the same era, sharing essential life experiences.

While we can't stereotype individuals based on their birth year, generational insights offer a glimpse into shared values and experiences that shape parenting styles.

Understanding these generational traits can enlighten us about our upbringing and approach to parenting and even predict future parenting trends.

Join us on a fascinating journey through time as we uncover the unique parenting styles of the seven living generations.

Definition of generation

Ever caught yourself saying, 'Back in my day...' and realized you sound just like your parents?

That's the generational influence talking! Whether you're a proud Gen Xer, a millennial maven, or somewhere in between, we belong to a generation shaped by the times we grew up in.

Think about it: our generation is more than just a timestamp; it's a shared journey of cultural moments, world-changing events, and those unforgettable trends (yes, even the questionable fashion ones!).

Demographers and researchers often categorize these generations based on a span of 15-20 years, although the exact cutoffs are not an exact science.

But did you know these generational labels – from the resilient Greatest Generation to our newest little stars, Generation Alpha – are more than just fancy names?

They're a window into understanding why we think and act as we do, especially in roles like parenting or navigating our careers.

These generational groups aren't set in stone. Born on the cusp? You might find yourself nodding along to both Spice Girls and Nirvana.

That's the beauty of our unique stories, blending the lines between Gen X's grit and millennial optimism.

So, let's walk down memory lane and explore what makes each generation tick – from the Silent Generation's wisdom to the tech-savvy Gen Z.

The Greatest Generation (born between 1901 and 1927)

The Greatest Generation, also known as the "G.I. Generation," was born during significant changes, including two world wars, the Great Depression, and industrialization. 

This generation is known for their resilience and sense of duty, honed by their wartime experiences.

Main events around the world:

  • 1914: World War I

  • 1914: Completion of Panama Canal

  • 1917: Russian Revolution

  • 1920: White women allowed to vote in the U.S.

Parenting approach:

The parenting style of the Greatest Generation was characterized by strict discipline and a focus on conformity.

Children were expected to obey their parents and conform to societal norms. As a result, the punishment was common and often physical.


The Silent Generation (born between 1928 and 1945)

The silent generation was born during the Great Depression and World War II and was named "silent" because they were raised to be seen and not heard.

They grew up in economic turmoil and social conservatism, and their parenting style reflected that. 

Main events around the world:

  • 1929: The great depression

  • 1933: Hitler was named chancellor of Germany

  • 1939: World War II

  • 1945: Atomic bombs dropped on Japan

  • 1945: Foundation of the United Nations

Parenting approach:

They believed in discipline and respect and often had a traditional view of gender roles.

Yet, despite their label, the Silent Generation played a significant role in shaping our society and laying the groundwork for future generations. 


The Baby Boomers (born between 1946 and 1964)

The Baby Boomers were born during economic prosperity and cultural upheaval.

The civil rights movement, the Vietnam War, and the feminist movement shaped this generation.

Main events around the world:

  • 1947: Cold War

  • 1948: Beginning of the Apartheid

  • 1950: Korean War

  • 1955: Vietnam War

  • 1963: Assassination of John F. Kennedy

Parenting approach:

A focus on self-expression and individualism characterized the parenting style of the Baby Boomers.

Parents encouraged their children to be independent and to follow their dreams.

Therefore, discipline was often more relaxed than in previous generations, focusing on positive reinforcement rather than punishment.


Generation X (born between 1965 and 1980)

Generation X was born during a time of economic recession and political turbulence.

In addition, the MTV generation was shaped by events such as the Watergate scandal, the end of the Cold War, and the rise of the Internet.

Main events around the world:

  • 1969: First human to step on the moon

  • 1973: The Supreme Court in the U.S. legalized abortion

  • 1977: The personal computer industry began to popularize

  • 1979: Margaret Thatcher elected as the first female British prime minister

  • 1980: Iran-Iraq War

Parenting approach:

A focus on self-sufficiency and resilience characterized the parenting style of Generation X.

Parents encouraged their children to be self-reliant and take responsibility for their lives.

Consequently, discipline was often more permissive than in previous generations, focusing on negotiation and compromise.

Millennials (born between 1981 and 1996)

Millennials, also known as Generation Y, were born during technological advancement and globalization.

In general, this generation is less enthusiastic about having kids than previous generations for several reasons, such as economic uncertainty, higher level of education, and focus on careers.

As a result, the fertility rate has been dropping worldwide.

In addition, intermarriage rates are higher for Millennials than for Gen Xers across all racial and ethnic groups.

Main events around the world:

  • 1981: The first cases of AIDS were reported in the U.S.

  • 1989: Fall of the Berlin Wall

  • 1991: The Persian Gulf War

  • 1993: The World Wide Web software is available to the public

  • 1993: European Union (E.U.) formed

Parenting approach:

Millennials are often under pressure to be the perfect parent as they navigate a world that expects them to balance work and family life while striving for financial stability and personal fulfillment.

With the rise of social media, there is also the added pressure of presenting a picture-perfect family image to the world.

Regarding their parenting style, discipline is often less punitive than in previous generations, focusing on positive reinforcement and natural consequences.

This generation values family time and is more involved in their kids ' lives than some previous generations.

Moreover, the millennial parenting style emphasizes emotional connection, inclusivity, and empowering their children to become independent thinkers and problem solvers.

Gen Z (born between 1997 and 2012)

Gen Z was born during rapid technological change and political polarization.

This generation is shaped by events such as the rise of social media, the Black Lives Matter movement, and the COVID-19 pandemic.

The post-millennials grew up in a world where smartphones, social media, and instant access to information are the norm.

They tend to be more independent, creative, and socially conscious than previous generations. 

Main events around the world:

  • 1998: Google is launched

  • 2001: 9/11 Terrorist attacks

  • 2001: Afghanistan War

  • 2003: Iraq War

  • 2008: Financial crisis around the world

Parenting approach:

Generation Z is still a relatively young generation when it comes to parenting. As such, there is insufficient data or research to make definitive conclusions about their parenting style.

However, some early observations suggest that Gen Z parents may focus more on maintaining a life balance, prioritizing their mental health and well-being, and embracing technology to connect with their children.

As this generation ages and has children, we can expect to see more insights and trends emerging about their parenting style.

Generation Alpha: so, what is next?

It's fascinating to see how parenting styles have evolved across different generations, from baby boomers to Gen X to millennials and, in the future, to Gen Alpha. 

As parents, we have a unique opportunity to shape the next generation and prepare them for the challenges and opportunities.

Generation Alpha (2013) is already showing great potential to be a generation of digital natives who are socially conscious, creative, and adaptable. 

They're growing up in a world that's changing faster than ever. Still, they're also developing with access to knowledge, resources, and technology that can help them navigate this evolving world. 

But what does the future hold for them?

Well, one thing's for sure: they will be leading the charge in many areas, including technology, sustainability, and social justice.

More importantly, they're going to be the ones who will come up with new and innovative solutions to the world's problems. 

As parents, it's our job to help them develop the skills and values they need to thrive in this world.

Then, we can guide, nurture, and support them as they grow into tomorrow's leaders, innovators, and changemakers. 

So it's exciting to think about the future of Gen Alpha, and we can't wait to see the amazing things they will achieve!




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