Should I Get a Pet For My Only Child?
You might try another tactic if your kid keeps asking for a sibling.
What about getting a pet for your only child?
According to a study from the University of Cambridge, children get more satisfaction from relationships with their pets than their brothers or sisters.
There's even increasing evidence that having a pet may influence a child's development and positively impact children's social skills and emotional well-being.
Still not convinced? Dr. Kennedy-Moore, a clinical psychologist, has said that pets can be an excellent source of comfort for kids.
Kids often mention their pets when discussing their family members in her practice.
It's a good alternative for those parents who have decided not to have another baby but still want to give their kids new family experiences.
In addition to my unique personal experience, I want to give you all the benefits of a pet for your only child, according to research and psychologists.
I'll also share the heads-up on a few things to keep in mind before taking the leap.
The Benefits of a Pet For Your Only Child
1 – Teaches Responsibility
This was my strongest argument when trying to convince my husband of the incredible benefits of adopting a cat.
According to a review of companion animals and child development, pet care leads to positive behaviors, such as responsibility.
That is especially important when you have an only child.
Your little ones have probably never experienced taking care of (or seeing you take care of) someone apart from them.
Nonetheless, it would be best not to overload them, especially with young children.
Instead, start slowly, asking your kid to be responsible for putting the water and food in the bowls or helping with the brushing or grooming.
I'm sure this will make them proud and feel like a big brother or sister to the pet!
2 – Gives Emotional Support
Children are generally very self-absorbed and are still learning the importance of empathy.
Owning a pet can teach our kids that there are small (or big) creatures that rely a lot on us, if not totally.
As the American Academy of Child & Adolescent Psychiatry says:
"Developing positive feelings about pets can contribute to a child's self-esteem and self-confidence. In addition, positive relationships with pets can aid in developing trusting relationships with others. A good relationship with a pet can also help develop non-verbal communication, compassion, and empathy."
Olivia understands that Snowy has feelings and needs care and attention to be happier!
Besides, she also learned how tough it is seeing him in pain without being able to do anything about it.
As a result, it strengthened her sense of sympathy and love.
Since he's been with us, I have no doubts that she has developed her nurturing side and become more aware of others' feelings.
3 – Fosters Independence by Sharing Attention
Having an only child tends to consume your entire attention and concerns.
Pet ownership helps remove this spotlight from your little one and relieve your anxieties.
You'll have less time to think about whether or not your kid will be lonely.
As the old proverb says: "An idle mind is the devil's workshop."
Trust me; children sense our fears and our occasional overprotection.
And unfortunately, this can lead to insecurity and self-doubt in the future.
Sharing your time with someone else will show your child that they are not the center of the universe, which teaches independence and boosts self-esteem.
4 – Becomes a 24/7 Fur Companion
Finally, the most compelling may be that you'll give your kiddo a 24/7 companion!
Regardless of the pet you choose – whether a horse (my childhood dream!) or a dog – it will undoubtedly make a good partner for your children.
Research demonstrates that children who grow up with a companion animal show higher levels of self-esteem and develop into more socially competent adults.
If you have a dog, it's also a fantastic way to encourage outdoor physical activity.
As strange as it sounds, I "walk" my indoor cat around my condo.
It's also great to help your child socialize since pets are a good ice-breaker.
In addition, people generally like pets, which can be a great excuse to make friends.
Things to Consider Before Getting a Pet for Your Child
1 – Long-Term Commitment
If I had to prioritize, this is undoubtedly the first and most important thing to consider before getting a pet.
It's a big commitment, both initially and long term.
Most dogs need regular walks, and cats need to have some level of interaction daily – such as playing and petting!
Besides, it's also essential to remember that some pets can live up to 20 years.
And if you live an ex-pat life, consider whether you'll be able to bring your companion along on your next move.
If not, consider fostering a pet instead of making a more permanent decision.
2 – Financial Resources
Owning a pet can be pretty expensive. First, their diet and grooming are regular/fixed monthly costs.
On top of that, even if your pet is healthy, you'll probably have to book health check visits to the vet at least once a year.
Furthermore, you must plan for unforeseen expenses, such as when the pet needs medical treatment and what you'll do when traveling.
To sum up, do the math!
Nowadays, it's easy to find a site where you can estimate costs (mainly for dogs and cats). I'm fond of this one.
3 – Animal and Breed
Not all pets are equal! Some are much more demanding than others.
If you have small children, checking whether the pet and breed are suitable for their age is also essential.
Some breeds have a calm temperament, which is excellent for young children.
Keep these characteristics in mind when selecting the best pets for kids.
Once, my sister adopted a dog without doing her homework.
Unfortunately, it turned out it was not a good match for them.
It was too active and had much more energy than they could handle.
They had to find this dog another home, and later they adopted one that was the perfect fit for them!
4 – Family Lifestyle and Restrictions
Finally, before adopting any pet (especially cats), ensure none of your family members are allergic to it.
If you aren't sure, try to spend some time with the animal you have in mind – in your neighborhood, pet shop, or shelter.
In addition, make sure that your house is ready to accommodate the new member.
For example, if you live in an apartment and plan to bring a cat home, you should have all your windows/balconies protected beforehand.
What are the best pets for kids?
There is no one-size-fits-all answer to the question of the best pets for kids.
Instead, it depends on various factors, such as your family's lifestyle, budget, interests, and the child's age.
Nevertheless, here are some popular pets that are usually a good fit for families with children:
Fish
Fish are great starters because they don't require much effort.
Furthermore, they are fairly inexpensive to care for and require relatively low maintenance.
There is a variety of fish that kids can choose from, including goldfish and bettas.
You can even get a big tank if you have a larger budget.
A fish tank allows the child to experience the joy of pet ownership while providing them with a relaxing hobby that can help reduce stress.
These fascinating creatures also provide a calming presence in the home.
Birds
Like fish, birds can also be a good start because they are low-maintenance and easy to care for.
In addition, they are delightful to watch and can be left alone for long periods.
The most popular birds that make good pets are parakeets and canaries.
However, kids can choose from many other types of birds.
Caring for birds can teach kids how to be gentle and handle them properly.
Guinea Pigs
Guinea pigs are another excellent choice; that is relatively easy to care for and tend to be very affectionate overall.
However, don't underestimate their size.
Though you don't need to walk them, they need plenty of space to run around.
Guinea pigs are social animals, so they must be kept in pairs.
Hence, another thing to consider in terms of space. Therefore, you'll likely need a large cage.
Guinea Pigs also require a bit more care than fish or birds.
They need fresh vegetables and fruits as well as hay. Kids will also need to clean out their cages regularly.
Dogs
Everyone knows that dogs make great pets for kids because they provide companionship and unconditional love.
They also need frequent walks so that kids will get some exercise too.
However, dogs require a lot of care. They need to be fed, watered, and groomed regularly.
You also need to take them out for walks; some dogs might even require training.
If you're considering getting a dog for your child, do your research first.
Different breeds have different temperaments and exercise needs.
You want to be sure you're getting a dog that will not bite your children and is a good choice for your family's lifestyle.
Cats
I'm very biased toward cats. They can be great companions like dogs but are more independent.
However, cats require initial litter box training, which must be cleaned out regularly.
You also need to have your house ready for a cat before you bring one home.
This means having all your windows and doors right protected.
Cats like to climb and explore, so you don't want them getting out and getting lost.
Overall, they are lower-maintenance pets than dogs.
They don't need to be walked and can be left alone for extended periods.
Say Yes to Getting a Pet for Your Only Child
It might sound like a lot, but trust me, getting a pet for your child is so much fun and worth it!
Having a pet at home changes the house environment and makes your life fuller and more exciting!
If you find an excellent match for your kiddo, this pet can help your family grow even stronger and closer.
Together they can develop a powerful and beautiful bond that can give your child and your family long-lasting memories.
I highly recommend it!
One last word of advice, try to adopt a pet instead of buying one.
There are so many animals in shelters that need a good home.
Your child will love being able to say they rescued their pet, and he will learn compassion from a young age.
